The following is a message based on Esther 4: 10-17 I gave in my church this morning. I have asked my congregation to have words of courage, I can do no less...
Pastor
Martin Niemöller was a protestant pastor in Germany during the second world
war, and the time of reconciliation afterward. A time we recognize as full of great
horror and upheaval. You may already be well familiar with a poem based on a
speech of his, this particular version comes off the US Holocaust memorial:
First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Socialist.
Because I was not a Socialist.
Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak
out—
Because I was not a Trade Unionist.
Because I was not a Trade Unionist.
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Jew.
Because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for
me.
It seems
that these words could have easily been written for Mordecai to share with
Esther.
Both of
those times were times of great risk and upheaval. Jews did not have a place
that belonged solely to them. They lived without security. They lived without
true belonging and safety just for being who they were.
It’s
something which we all long for and need. It’s something upon which we build
the foundations of our society so that our children grow up and inherit
something better, safer, some place in which they can belong.
That sense
of belonging—it beckons us all. We all have a deep desire for safety. These are
universal needs.
Esther had
every reason to be afraid. Disobeying the King would put her very life in
danger. Esther was only Queen because the Queen before her was booted out for
making King Xerces unhappy.
But
Mordecai’s words echo down through the generations, “Do not think that in the
king’s palace you will escape any more than all the other Jews. For if you keep
silence at such a time as this, relief and deliverance will rise for the Jews
from another quarter, but you and your father’s family will perish. Who knows?
Perhaps you have come to royal dignity for just such a time as this.’
Such a time
as this…
We live in a
time where hate is pedaled to us like the sales pitch of an old time tonic
salesman promising to cure everything that ails us.
But the idea
of God not loving people is something which we can let go of.
The last
time I was preaching I was unaware that morning a shooting had occurred at
Pulse nightclub in Florida and so did not mention it in worship, through
pastoral prayer, nor did I find a way to address it in the message.
There’s some
controversy surrounding this nightclub because it was a gay club.
While most
of our culture has condemned that shooting as an atrocity, a hate crime, a
heinous act. Others have said, well, it’s very sad, and it’s wrong to shoot
people. But, they were, you know, gay. I wouldn’t do that, and I’m sure God
doesn’t think it’s okay, but they were in a nightclub doing, well, who knows
what….
As if any of
that has any correlation to the horror of what happened.
While I was on vacation I heard an
interesting thing at my Dad’s church that hadn’t occurred to me before. His
pastor spoke about how this club was a place of safety for the gay community.
That there are so few places in our society where Lesbian, Gay, Transgender or
Bisexual folks don’t have to obsessively watch themselves and how others
respond to them.
Now, I have
never thought of a club, dancing, and drinking as a place of safety. A place of
complete belonging and acceptance.
But, then,
I’ve never needed to do so. I’ve been welcome wherever I’ve been, and my
relationship with the one I love the most in this world has always been
accepted. I’ve never had to look out for us and I’ve most definitely never had
to hide our love.
And as Pastor
Brenda shared this I sat there and wondered was the church as much, or more, of
a place of safety as gay clubs can be seen to be?
And, sadly,
for many, the church is not. If one is gay, then one can find oneself in a
group of people who profess love and grace and acceptance for all, but in
practice share words of hate, coldness, and be a place where one is most
definitely not welcome.
But there
are exceptions. Places where the love of God and God’s hospitality are a
priority and are shared with all who enter. Churches that have made it their
mission to go out of their way to show that they care and love all people, and
do not see one’s sexuality as a hindrance to God’s acceptance.
The
Disciples of Christ Church affirms that all are loved and accepted by God and
encourages its churches to go through a process of discussion about how to be more
accepting, show God’s hospitality, and share with the surrounding community
that it believes all are welcomed by God.
But, many
churches-both denominations and congregations- continue to struggle with ideas
of what is acceptable to God and what isn’t.
How is that
our decision?
How can we
judge what God deems lovable?
If God can
deem anyone unlovable, then friends, we have to realize that God can deem us
unlovable too.
Esther’s
answer was through her faith-fasting and prayer that gave her the courage to
speak out for her people.
We, too, can
have the courage to pray and speak out for our people.
Yes, our
people.
LGBT folks
are our people—no longer should they be shunned by the church or church folk.
Instead let
us be a voice that shows God’s acceptance. A voice that speaks out against hate.
Unless good folks stand up and say, no more, then this cycle of violence will
continue.
Let’s not
let this issue get clouded that in this one instance the shooter happened to be
Muslim. He did not act in a way that is consistent with the Muslim faith as
most Muslims understand it.
Violence
happens all the time to the LGBT community. And some of it is perpetrated by
folks who profess to be committed Christians.
It may no
longer be enough to not say hateful things or not do hateful things to this
group of people. It may be time for folks who love God like we do to be more
vocal about God’s love and acceptance.
Like
Mordecai’s words of wisdom to Esther, our answers also lay within the courage
that is found through hope. And hope, my friends, is not a weak emotion used
when our backs are to the wall and we have nothing left. We lead with hope. We
lead with love.
And, instead
of feeding the fear and hate that seems to be rampant in our country right now,
we can instead courageously and steadfastly say words of love, compassion, and
truth.
That Love is
always greater than hate. Hope is always greater than fear. We are not a people
of hate or of fear. We are always a people of love and of hope.
Amen.